Loss

Have You ever experienced loss? It does not have to be in a grave way. Maybe You lost a friend because You grew apart. Maybe You had to leave a communion because of moving. Maybe You had to give away an Animal friend because You were no longer able to take care of them. There Are harder losses. Like losing someone to death or even parting ways with Your Love in Life. Having to move on, from them. But loss is still loss, in its own way. Different in ways, in the sense of its hardships when it happens, and also thinking about if You Get to see them again or not. After You have lost them. I actually parted ways with My Love, a while back. And that I really wanted to mourn that. Because mourning something, or someone, means that they mattered. It does not mean that they Are dead. To mourn them. It just means that it is a sad thing, that what once were, has ended. And mourning something that has ended, will help the Healing process, when moving on from it. It can be hard to move on from something or someone if the grief is very big. But just know, that it is possible to move on, still having Love in our Hearts. So what I did, is that I put on our song. The one we allways had on when we were laying in each others arms. And I layed on the coach. Awaiting to feel the feelings of mourning. But do You know what happened? All I could feel was Love for him. It was like my Heart was saying, no, no need to mourn, celebrate what You had, and still Love him. And that I felt. I layed there, just, still Loving Him, wanting for him someone new, someone he could be with. Someone other than me. Wanting all of the good stuff for him. And at some level, I had mourning for not being able to mourn him, but I, at last just said, okay then Heart, just Love for him then. And that was all I felt for him. Love. 

I do know that this probably is not the easiest to feel if You Are the one being left. But it will be possible with time. I believe that. I believe, that Love is more than able to stay, if it is invited to. If we Are able to change our perspective of the loss, seeing the Beauty of what we had, cherishing it as something that has been part of a time in our lives. Appreciating our time there. And having Love, for that time. When one door closes, another one opens. That is how Life is. And I know moving on is way harder if we lose someone to death. But death also, is the end of the Life we had in our lives, and when they Are gone from this realm, they do have another Life awaiting them. Either in one of the Heavens, or with Spirit, or just another Lifetime, or Home to Source. Or Even somewhere else. There Are unimaginable many planets out there in the Universe. How can we know, we might end up on one of them at some point. In a different lifetime. I dont mean that we should take lightly on death. Because it is losing the one we had here, but we should not forget to Love, having had them, when it is time. Trusting, that they Are okay somewhere out there. In another Life, in one of the Heavens, with Spirit, or Source or an entirely different place, where they will be Happy. 

My point here is that mourning can be Beatiful, it can be painful. But what it does is that it shows us how much the people we Are mourning meant to us. But depending I think, on what it is in regards to, sometimes all we have, is Love. And that is okay. So if You, like me, Are trying to mourn, but all You can feel is Love for what You had, that is okay. And its more than okay, because do You know what? That means it mattered too. 

Thank You for reading this.

With Unconditional Love and Gratitude

Elisabeth Hjerte