Are You aware of the power that resides within You? And the power we all can have together, if we all just stand together. The power of Love, if we all find that within ourselves, we can all break down the seperation that is holding us a part. I am not talking physical seperation here, but the mental one we have regarding each other. The emotional one. When we close our hearts to someone, we separate ourselves from them. And that I dont think is a good thing. Im not talking never saying goodbye to someone, or staying in a troubled relationship, but what I am saying is, all though someone is gone from You in a sense, just dont close Your Heart off. Stay open to the world. Love everyone Unconditionally. Wish them well, and all of the good stuff in Life. And just, accept them for who they are, different or not, and Love them Unconditionally. This does not mean being with them. Or being near them even. It just makes You feel better, appreciating what You had of the good stuff, still leaving it to rest. Not seperating Yourself from them, as a fellow Human being, with their own troubles, needs, maybe even regrets. I Understand that this is difficult, if the relation has been violent, traumatic or even just regulairly difficult. But do try to see this person, as a person with troubles, rather than evil, for example. No one is born evil. But all though You keep Your Heart open to them, not seperating Yourself from them with Your Heart, it does not mean letting them hold power over You. You can clear Your mind of them, by accepting what was, still saying no, to further continuation of it. Having Unconditional Love for them, wishing them all of the Healing necesarry, for them to change. Also, wishing them all of the good stuff, after their Healing Journey.
And for the difficult person here, You hold all of the power to change here. To Heal. It might take time. And You might feel bad during, but do You know what? You wont stay in those bad feelings. Do feel the guilt, because You know what, that makes You better than what You were before. Being regretful, proves that You see what was wrong, changing Your ways, doing it different. Step into this Healing, and if You feel shame, dont stay there. If You feel it, just feel it, but dont stay in shame. Shame makes You feel bad as a person, but it was Your actions that were bad, You as a person, is already Healing, changing, doing better, You are already a better person than what You were, then. So dont stay in shame. When You choose to Heal, when You choose to change, You are already a different person than what You were. If You feel bad, know that, that already makes You a better person. And when You do good, and have changed, You did it. You changed. And when You have, be frickin proud of Yourself for having gone through all of that, to be a better person. And if people are trying to put You down, for having been in a bad way, just dont let them. Dont let them bring You down like that. Just tell them, You frickin changed, and You did that. All though that might have been hard. All though that might have been so difficult, You did that. And do You know what? Tell them how hard that was for You, and You still frickin did it. Be proud of Yourself, and feel Joyful about it. Know how much better You are, and just, enjoy all of the good stuff. Have Love for Yourself, for all that You have been through. Have Love for others, all though they might not understand. Have tremendous amount of Love, for the fact, that You reached the other side of the tunnel. You reached the other side.
The power we all have within, the power to say no to what we do not wish for in our Life, still having Love for the possible being that we do not wish to have further experiences with, the power of Loving someone difficult, because we see them as the troubled being that they are. Still saying no to them. Acceptance is key here, but You hold the power to say no.
To bring all of it together, as a difficult being, do find the Love that You need within Yourself, not only for others, having Understanding for what they have been through with You, as a difficult one, but find it for Yourself as well. For having gone through all of this. Because it probably has not been easy for You either. Humans are troubled beings. And we go through so much stuff. Difficult people, difficult sircumstances, difficult emotions, trouble handleing our emotions. And it is difficult for everyone, in some extent. We all have to handle ourselves. We all have to cope with our own emotions. And we are basically all just trying to make a life for ourselves. So its not really just easy for anyone in fact. I saw this meme once, and it said; Treat others Kindly, because they might be fighting a battle You cannot see. And that was Beautiful to me. And do You know what? Love holds the power to Heal just about anyone. And if everyone woke up to this power within themselves, and Loved each other Unconditionally. The world WOULD become a better place. All of this writing about Love, is not merely for the ones who are able. We are all able to Love our neighbours. Being neighbourly. Loving another Human, just because they are a fellow Human. We are in fact all the same specie. We SHOULD stand together as one. Divided, sure, but seperated? No, we should no longer seperate ourselves from each other.
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Thank You for reading this.
With Unconditional Love and Gratitude
Elisabeth Hjerte
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