Love brings more Love

I have noticed something. When I do things out of Love. It brings more of the Loving feeling in me. And I believe that doing things out of Love, makes You a more Loving being. From within. It makes You grow, in Love and as a person. Love actually just brings more Love. Like You are starting a flow from within You. Like, I was with my family for Christmas last year. And I got a Heart opening. And I felt so good around them and felt so much care and Love for them that I just did stuff out of the Love that I have for them. And started a flow in me, making me do more things out of Love, bringing me more of the Loving feeling, giving more ability to do more out of my Love for them. This isnt about grand gestures or anything like that, it can be small stuff, but if You root Yourself in Love, where You do what You do for others, whatever that may be, You do it out of Love. And when You see that Loving reaction, You will feel so good, and it will just give You more Love. Its like You have started a wheel of sorts within, with flow of Love, and it just keeps filling You up, with Lovingness. 

Some might think that if You give of Your Love, You are giving it away, and You might go empty or something(I dont think everyone thinks like this, not even many, but the few), but Unconditional Love is something that is Love, but without the expectations of getting anything out of it. You just Love without wanting anything back. And when You Love Unconditionally, You just get the Loving feeling, without having a need to be Loved back or to be having them closely in our Lives. Its just Love, without conditioning. Love without labeling anything. Like, I still Love my ex, but I have no need to have him in my Life anymore, it has ended, but I still have loads of Love for him, and wants everything that is good for him. Loving him still, without wanting him in my Life like it used to be. Do You understand? It means to not close Your Heart for them, even if You might want to, to move on. But You can still move on, and still Love them, and Love the time that You had with them, and still move on. Not closing Your Heart to them, but just appreciating what once was, still having Love for the person You might need to move on from, and still leave. 

I know this might be difficult in a situation where You are the one being left. But sometimes, things just dont work out. It does not even mean that the person who is leaving, does not Love You. It means that things are just not working out. So when this happens, You will just need time. Time to Heal. Time to move on. And sorrow, is part of the process. But all though You might feel sorrow, over something lost, there will still be something gained after. Because when one door closes, another one will open. That is how it is. Allways. It does not mean a new relationship as a definite. But it does mean new opportunities for You. A new Life awaiting. Where You will go through the Healing of this loss, with time. And when this time has passed. You, like I was, will be able to look back at this, with Love in Your Heart. Just Love Unconditionally. See them as the being that they are. Have Understanding for them leaving. I know this is hard, when You are the one being left. But Unconditional Love enables You to Love them, without the need to be with them, in the way that You once were. Just take Your time with this, if You are the one being left, just take all the time that You need with it. But just dont close Your Heart to them. And still Love them. As a friend. When You are ready for it. 

Thank You for reading this.

With Unconditional Love and Gratitude.

Elisabeth Hjerte