Loving each other Unconditionally

I want to talk a bit about Unconditional Love. And why its so important. And Respect in fact. I dont feel like anyone understands. Its like, when I talk about Unconditional Love, no one understands what I actually mean. And thats why I want to bring it up in this blog post. I already wrote a bit about it in the Connecting with Heart post, so if you havent read that, you can check it out. But, loving someone Unconditionally, is basically Love, for that being or person, just with no expectations of a relationship, or any expectations of who they are as a being. Its having Love, knowing that they are their own person, with their own Journey, accepting them for who they are, and still Loving them. It still might contain Hope for that person. If they are on the wrong path for instance, but having Respect for their Journey and Compassion for what they are going through. But the point is, that the Unconditional Love, is in fact Unconditional. The Love remains through all of it, and if there is something that is of harm from that person, you cry for that person, instead of going to hate and anger. I know this probably can be a difficult state to be in all of the time. But I have realized, after having gone through loosing all of that Heart energy, and living without that, best feeling ever, feeling. That it still sits in my mind. So when you reach this point in your Heart. Let it manifest in your mind. When it sits there, it becomes a mindset. I dont need all of that Heart energy anymore, because my mind is set on this. Unconditional Love, Compassion, Understanding and Kindness. And Respect. My mind operates around that. 

I think I should work i bit on that last one in fact. Because, I have been telling everybody my feelings towards them. That I Love them and such. And it has brought a bit of disregulation in my Life. It was like this, having romantic feelings toward someone, and telling everyone that I loved them Unconditionally, and telling them how much I liked them, kind of made me a bit disrespectful toward the man I actually Loved, romantically. We werent together or anything, but I definetely were never considered as someone he would like to be with. So if you are in a relationship, maybe make sure you are both on the same page on this. There is nothing wrong with complementing others, or telling them that you like them for who they are, and telling them you Love them Unconditionally, but like it was for me, I liked more than one, maybe more than was okay for the someone that I was actually wanting to be with. So mind that. And its just a suggestion, or an advice. I have learned from this. So I just wanted to tell you about it. So that You will know, and so that You can make Your own judgement on what You want to do or be like. Its okay to Love Unconditionally in silence in fact. Its all about how You are with people. Not about telling them all of it all of the time.

I still believe in this, Loving each other Unconditionally. Being Compassionate, Understanding and Kind. Just think about how maybe someone You like/Love more deeper than all the others might feel about how you act upon this Unconditional Love that you are feeling towards others.

I Hope this is for help for You, and that it doesnt put any damper on the Journey that You are on regarding Unconditional Love towards others. Because I would feel bad if I did that to anyone. Because, You should definetely be Yourself, and not dampen Love, either it is romantically or Unconditionally. Just be a bit mindful. Thats all I wanted to say. 

Thank You for reading this.

With Unconditional Love and Gratitude

Elisabeth Hjerte