Compassion

Compassion for the difficult 

When You see someone, what do You see? When we see someone hurting, it is not difficult to have Compassion for them. But if we see someone acting out in some way, do You feel compassionate then? I know its not always easy, to have compassion for someone that might be acting out in a way that could be hurtful to someone. But what is that exactley? It is in fact someone hurting. Anger, is the easiest emotion one can go to, when hurting over something. Do You know what lies at the bottom of it? Of the anger? Sorrow. Hurt. A wound that has not been Healed. And when we know this, its easier to feel compassionate towards those that are having a more difficult time, managing their own hurt. 

There are many ways to get down, through the anger, and into the true emotion, the hurt. One of them, is breaking down the barriers that one is holding for others, not to come close to the true feeling one is having. One of them, is actually a drug called MDMA. This drug is a Medicine. I dont see it as a partydrug or anything. And I actually want to talk a little bit about it. Right here, on this blog. But it is important to know, there are other ways. And this is not for everyone. Another way to break down those walls, is to throw a ball, or something else easy to catch, while talking about things. You can walk side by side in nature, moving like that makes the scenery change and the conversation more easily open up. If you have a hard topic you would like to bring up, to talk to someone about, you can try conveying it through a story, so that the question you would like to ask is not so confrontational. You can even try telling Your story through the eyes of another person, preferrably a pet(since they are seeing things others in the household might not see.), or even a ghost following you around. Just make it something that isnt you, but still gets to see everything that You are going through. 

When I take MDMA, for me, it makes me connected to myself and my true nature. I will be listening, and attentive to the people around me. Im not saying everyone will be like this, but it will break down those barriers that are installed, and just so that I have said it, it is no ones true nature to be malicious. That is a survival mechanism that has kicked in somehow, during trauma responses, throughout Life. 

The MDMA tears down the walls and structures we have built, to keep ourselves alive, and this might vary from person to person, by expressing itself in many different ways(by keeping themselves alive, I mean, If we have had trauma of any sort, that has made us believe, that we need to protect ourselves by any means, these will collapse. And we will be able to talk about whats hurting, without the selfdefence mechanisms starting war with whoever is asking questions.). So, if someone has had trauma, where they have needed to reclaim their own power, this could make them express their power in a damaging way. For an example, if someone is abused in their home environment, they might feel the need to be the superior person, in their outside environment, so that they will not be abused here too. Now this is very important for me to be understanding of. Not in the way where I would accept being hurt, but by truly trying to see where they are coming from. I would want to talk to the person. Having them open up to me. And as well as I could, I would bring Healing to them. I am not saying, that if You are finding yourself in a harmful relationship, that you should stay by any means. But if you are in fact staying. Try to see. What do you know about their background? What have they been through? What have caused this kind of behaviour?

When its time to leave a situation - Still having Compassion 

Just so that I have said it, If You are continuesly harmed in a relation, this can be any relation, get out of it. You can try to Heal them first. But it is important to preserve Your own mental and physical Health. You have to see what is at stake, and if You fear for Your or others lives, get out. Have Understanding for them, and dont close Your Heart to them, but save yourself. And if Children are also involved, save them too. This might mean getting Help. By outside instances. This is not about You sacreficing yourself for others, so that the person that this might be regarding of, can have their Healing, but about You having an open Heart, while saving yourself and those it may concern. Dont let anything close your Heart. Stay soft, in a hard world. It is what is needed for the World, Humanity, to be able to connect with each other. Have your Heart cry for them, instead of turning to the hate that we might want to turn to(but if you do turn to that hate, its okay, just dont let it consume you, and dont be staying there. Move on). Stay soft and open hearted. So that we can meet everyone else, that is not like those that we might have met and have had harmful interactions with, with the powerful Love that we carry within us. Again, this doesnt mean a continuation of the harm you have experienced. All though, being this open, will make you vulnerable. But we can be vulnerable and discerning at the same time. Its about setting the boundaries needed, for those that are in need of Your boundaries. You can be soft and firm at the same time. Think of it as tough Love. Like You would set Boundaries for your children. With Unconditional Love, Compassion, Understanding and Kindness. Because you know what? We all carry our inner Child with us, at all times. Even though we are grown ups, even though we are old, that inner Child will always be there. With us, in need of everything we need at our very core. And we all have boundaries that can be crossed, and therefore needed to be reminded to others. And for those that struggle to see the boundaries of others, they will be needed to be reminded that they are in fact there and valid. 

Everyone needs Love

Now I have spoken about the hardest. But to move on to something a little lighter, but yet of a darker matter. Everyone needs Love. Love for who they truly are. This doesnt mean accepting harmful actions. Or doing them. But finding someones true core, who they were before the wound became the wound, will most likely lead us to the Child within, a wounded child. It is not like this for everyone, but for most, it is a wounded Child. Depending on our sensitivity, the trauma response will vary. And also develop differently throughout our growing up. Not everyone needs MDMA to work through these things, but for those that struggles, I will recommend it, without regrets. But do Your own research on dosage and at least for the forst time, have someone You trust with You. Someone who knows how it works.

Many might feel undeserving of Love. Many might have dark thoughts that they are relating themselves to. Not knowing that, thoughts are only that, thoughts. They dont define us as a person. It is what we do, with our own actions, that define us, as people. I, myself, have had bad thoughts, but I know it is not who I am, and those thoughts do not define me as a person. I will write an example, I might have a thought, a picture in my mind, of me running over someone in the middle of the road, with my car. Since my thoughts are open to the fourth dimension, other beings can see them, and I would be very embaressed when the beings that were there, were seeing this. They would react to it and ask me, would you ever do it? I would tell them no. Because I knew, I would never. It was not a thought that was wishing for that to happen. But the embaressement was not a good feeling to have, even if it werent a wishful thought. I dont think its rare to have these kinds of thoughts. I dont even think its rare to feel embarresement or even shame over them either. But know this. We are not our thoughts. Our thoughts are not our true essence. Our brains can have both bad and good thoughts. We are Human. What counts is how we work through them, how we view them. And I will encourage You, You who might have this kind of thoughts, to not relate to them. Because they are not You, they are not Your true essence. Your brain is constantly working through what You are feeding it, of information. This is in regards to anything. News, movies, books, experiences, energies. The people You encounter and their way of being. Your brain is basically being programmed all of the time, not turning You into what You are feeding it with. But making You take a stand to whatever You have fed it. So dont believe that the bad thoughts You are having, is what is defining You. It is the way You become, even though you are having them, that does. Rise above them. Reclaim Your true essence. Your Love and your Light.

You deserve Love in your life. I want You to know, You have the Power to become your most beatiful, kindhearted, compassionate self. And I believe this is the road to having Unconditional Love within You. Towards others, for yourself, and for all life that exists. You deserve not only to have this, but to share it. With everything and everyone. Never let the dark thoughts that might be within you, define You as a being. The Love that is within, may not come naturally to all. But I just want to say something. It is at the core of every Humans true nature. Everyone has this Love within them, wanting it, needing it, sharing it. It is what everyone would have and pass on, if the environmental moulding, during our childhood and into adulthood, would allow us(meaning, the building of the self, the construction of its creation during growth, from childhood to adult). When we go through this construction, finding the turning points during its creation, we can see what it is that has made us into who we are now. And then, we can change into who we truly are. Our Love, Compassion, acting out of Kindness, having the Understanding for other beings, and their own Journey through this. And this I believe, will change the world.

To get to a point here, I will just say, that if we are going to make it into this way of being. Open Hearted, Compassionate, Understanding and Kind, as Humanity, as a whole. We need to change ourselves first. Be that change in the world. Then share the good from Your Soul with others. Share Your Love, have Compassion, for us in fact, for the whole of Humanity. Because all though I just went through many negative traits of the Human built system. Many do try. And that is what matters. That we try. And then I think all of the rest will fall into place eventually. 

Compassion for the Animals

I know, that we as a specie, eat animals. That is just nature, how Humans have lived, since the beginning. But do we have to treat them like they dont have lives? Do we really not know that they are thinking, feeling creatures? Just like us. Not having the same thoughts and feelings as us, but their own. They deserve to be treated with Kindness, to have our Compassion and Understanding. To be living for as long as possible, to have their Children with them until they are grown. To be able to live a happy Life, while they live, in fact. I dont think its too much for them to ask of us. Not that they have a voice to ask with. But I think its the least we could do for them. After all that they have given us, through the time passing and our evolvement through it. Having them as a food supply for this long. When we connect with them, we see their worth. We then see their needs, and do what is nesecarry for them to have their needs met. 

Just Remember - When it seems to be the hardest

Everyone has been a Child on this Earth. A Child OF this Earth. And they deserve all the Healing that they should be given. Not everyone can take on the most difficult. But send them to the ones that can handle them. Recieve your Light, and send them. Open your Chrown, and recieve. Feel the firmness and the softness at the same time and set the boundarie that is needed. Either you leave or you might get hurt. And it can be badly. I wish You all the strength you need for this to be done. And for You to Heal all of the bad you might have experienced during your time with this difficult person. And regarding this difficult person, I wish for all the Healing needed to happen, happen for them too. Because, Healing is the best thing that can happen to everyone, in fact.

Thank You for reading this. 

With Unconditional Love and Gratitude

Elisabeth Hjerte