Have You ever been in a situation, that has caused You trauma, in a way that has changed You as a Being? What did You need in that moment? What did You need after? Im asking because, You can actually find tremendous Healing, by giving what You needed, in that moment or time, and pass that on to someone else. Because when You do this, You Heal, by becoming what You needed, not only for someone else that You pass it on to, but for Yourself. If many are doing this together, You will also have the support of others, going through the same. Which will give You comradery, in going through the same.
I want to give an example. So, I have a son, and I was not allways the best mother. Because I was young when I had him. And had not learned all of the things we should know, when we have Kids. And when he was around two and a half, and he had his.. what is it called again? That age when they get really determined and stubborn and all of that.. anyway, I thought he was being so difficult and I did not know what to do about it.. but do You know what I started doing? I started the morning, every morning, by giving him a hug. And do You know what? It changed the whole Kid. And that did not only Heal, what had been missing for him, for a long time, but it Healed, what had been missing within me.. and what had been missing through my own Childhood. Hugs. And I learned something then. That, if we can figure out, what was missing in our own Childhood, we can actually Heal, by bringing that forward, to others. Is not that Beautiful? That by finding our own needs, we meet them, by giving them to others. For instance, if we never talked much with people, and we needed to talk to someone, just by opening our mouths, and talking to other people, we not only are talking to other people, but our own need for talking to people are being met. By us talking to other people. Like with that hug every morning with my son. I not only met his need for that hug that he recieved from me, but I got that hug back from him, having my need for a hug met. Just by giving from myself to him. I recieved that hug, right back from him. Beautiful? Yes, I think so :)
If we can manage to learn from our own Childhood, our own Life, and like, bring that learning into Healing actions, like I talked about a bit prior in this post, with the hug, that is Wisdom within us. If we can transmute all of our lessons that we have learned, into Wisdom, we will be able to Heal ourselves, and others, in ways that might seem simple, but they are powerful. All anchored in Loving Kindness. Having Understanding for not only others, but for ourselves, having Compassion, for each Human out there. Understanding that, we all have had needs, that might not have been met, either in traumatic situations or otherwise. And what I figure we all need, is comfort. Love. Understanding for what we have been through. And Help navigating the things in our lives that might be leading us off the right track in Life.
I believe in Healing for all of us. Healing for all of Earth. Healing for Earth as a whole. Where us, mankind, Humanity, are all there for each other. Where we are all wise Beings, who learn not only from ourselves, but from others. Where we not only stand together, but work together, care for each other, taking care of each other. In ways that makes us thrive, as a whole Harmonious Synergy, here on our Beautiful Home Planet. I Believe in all of this.
Thank You for reading this.
With Unconditional Love and Gratitude
Elisabeth Hjerte
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