When we look ourselves in the mirror, what do we see? Or, what do You see? Do You only see Your appearance? Or do You see Yourself as a Being? If we are going to manage to Heal ourselves, we must look at ourselves within. Because allthough our appearances is part of who we are, because it is how we express our personalities. Our style, is how we express ourselves, and our bodies is how we look. As a Being. But to Heal, we must look within. At our selves. What is it, that has made us, into the Being, we are today? We all have grow points in our selves. Which I prior, have called building blocks. Where we have learned something, having an experience. And, we learn something from every experience that we have. But we dont allways learn good lessons from them. Which can make us grow in a bad way for not only ourselves. But for others. Like this, if I have an experience as a Child, where my Home situation is a Place I have no power over myself, and I get teased or bullied at school, that can trigger me, into thinking I have to be in power over others. To have power at all. Because from my Home situation, I have learned, since I hold no power over others at Home, I have no power. Therefore, I need to hold power over others where I am at, otherwise, to have power. But this is wrong. We all hold power over ourselves. Our own choices are all our own, and we hold all of the power to shape our lives in the ways that we want to. But we cannot control circumstances. But what we do with what we have, is all in our power. And we need not to take power from others, to be powerful in our own lives. It is, ofcourse way more difficult for a Child to shape their lives, in the way a grown up can. But they still hold all of the power to choose for themselves, how to react, how to act on and how to express on a difficult experience. All of this, is not very easy for a Child to Understand. But with the right support for ourselves, starting from Childhood and all the way until old, I think that we could have had the best opportunities to grow as our best selves. Im not saying everyone needs counseling. But many would have benefitted from it.
If we can all have Understandning for those that has built wrong, for how they built wrong in that way, in the first place, to have a Heart for them, for what they have been through. To see them at their core. What are the underlying feeling, that drives them? And how can they be themselves, without the need to take the power that they lack, from others? They might have aquired a hunger for it, but do You know what? If someone is in hunger for power, but wields it not only Respectfully, but honours the position of being in power, they might be very much expected to be in a position of power in either their work environment where they have been hired, or to become an entrepreneur. Working at their very own workplace, which they have created, all by themselves, giving them all of the power, over their own work. They might have the drive to build an empire. But what is important to remember about power, is that with great power, comes an even greater responsibility. And to be a great leader, You should defenetelly be great as a Being. Meaning, take care of Your workers, be powerful, in the position You are in, but take that responsibility of Your power seriously. Because if You take care of Your workers, or those that You are in power of in any way, You will be Loved for it. Cherished as the person who leads with Kindness. So there is nothing wrong with wanting power, or to be in a powerful position, its what one does with that power, that shows others who You are as a leader. And if You do not Respect others, because of sircumstances of prior experiences, try to get/have some Understanding. For those that might be difficult for You to have Respect for. Because we are all Beings, that have what we have in our rucksack. And when I talk about our rucksack, I mean what we have of learning from our experiences. And this goes to everyone. As Children, we cannot help learn what we learn from things and we cannot help our sircumstances that is making us learn, maybe even wrong things. But as adults, out of the situations that might have caused us to learn the way that we did. We hold all of the power, to re learn the things we learned wrong. We might need to ask for help, to do this, but once we realize, that we hold all of the power, within ourselves, we can change as Beings. Becoming our best versions. Our most Healed selves. Not only being Kind to ourselves, but having Understanding and Respect for others, in a way that makes us comfortable, being ourselves. And this is not about letting others trample over You, because we also hold all of the power, to choose who we want in our lives. And if, Respect, is not served at someone elses table, You have the power, to choose, not to sit at their table in fact. By this I mean, if others do not treat You with Respect and Kindness, when You are showing them that exact things, You are free to leave them out of Your Life. We all choose for ourselves, who to surround ourselves with. Make sure You are not only someone, others wants in their lives, but choose the people, You want, in Your Life. Who builds You up, instead of tearing You down? Who do You build up? Are You a leader of sorts? Are You then taking care of Your people? We all have a responsibility, to be what is of good, to others, but we also deserve what is good, towards ourselves.
Thank You for reading this.
With Unconditional Love and Gratitude
Elisabeth Hjerte
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